Obituaries

Richard Proudfit
B: 1929-12-19
D: 2018-11-13
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Proudfit, Richard
Robert Nehotte
B: 1929-04-03
D: 2018-11-14
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Nehotte, Robert
Jane Rosenberg
B: 1933-06-11
D: 2018-11-13
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Rosenberg, Jane
Caroline Donahue
B: 1919-11-24
D: 2018-10-11
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Donahue, Caroline
James Dutenhoeffer
B: 1949-08-03
D: 2018-11-14
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Dutenhoeffer, James
Harriet Haeg
B: 1938-03-01
D: 2018-11-11
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Haeg, Harriet
John Lind
B: 1916-10-09
D: 2018-11-08
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Lind, John
Henry Vidal
B: 1959-02-07
D: 2018-11-08
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Vidal, Henry
Lulu Hoffman
B: 1931-10-11
D: 2018-11-03
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Hoffman, Lulu
Marilyn Kenealey
B: 1958-05-22
D: 2018-11-04
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Kenealey, Marilyn
Mary Anderson
D: 2018-11-07
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Anderson, Mary
Bruce Lindgren
B: 1956-09-14
D: 2018-11-07
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Lindgren, Bruce
James Burns
D: 2018-10-28
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Burns, James
Charles Barrett
D: 2018-11-05
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Barrett, Charles
Ivona Risacher
B: 1931-05-17
D: 2018-11-04
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Risacher, Ivona
Mary MacDonald
B: 1946-06-16
D: 2018-10-31
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MacDonald, Mary
Florence Mohr
B: 1926-06-26
D: 2018-11-03
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Mohr, Florence
Charlotte Reynolds
B: 1921-06-12
D: 2018-09-27
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Reynolds, Charlotte
Canh Tran
B: 1931-04-13
D: 2018-10-25
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Tran, Canh
Joyce Benusa
B: 1930-03-22
D: 2018-10-24
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Benusa, Joyce
Robert Smith
B: 1929-02-25
D: 2018-10-01
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Smith, Robert

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Memorial Services

Saying goodbye to a loved one is never easy, and this is something that we understand all too well. Our goal at Gill Brothers Funeral Home and Cremation Services is to make sure that you have the best possible experience, and that your family is able to properly say goodbye to the deceased.

what is a memorial service

What is a Memorial Service?

Unlike a traditional funeral, memorial services are a gathering where a casket is not present (although the urn with the cremated remains may be on display). Memorial services can be held weeks or even months after the death.

A memorial service can be held in a church, the funeral home or a community hall, or somewhere of importance to the deceased and family. There is usually music, selected readings, and a eulogy. Memorial services can be further personalized as a celebration-of-life.

Memorial Service Ideas

Our experience has shown us that many of today's families want more than a traditional funeral. This can be done by bringing more of the personality and lifestyle of the deceased into the arrangements. By displaying photographs or staging the event around a favorite pastime, a memorial service can become more personal and meaningful.

If a personalized memorial service suits the needs of your family, we suggest you consider the following questions:

  • What did your loved one like to do?
  • What was he or she like as an individual?
  • What was their profession and how did that shape their life?
  • Was your loved one spiritual?
  • Was he or she proud of their cultural or ethnic heritage? 

Benefits of a Memorial Service?

Rather than opting to do things "the same old way", many families today want to celebrate the life of a loved one. Many funeral service professionals see this change as one of the many contributions to social change made by 'Baby Boomers'. The National Funeral Directors Association notes, "As baby boomers age and find themselves having to plan funerals for loved ones and themselves, they are making funeral choices based on values that are different than previous generations. Baby boomers see funerals as a valuable part of the grieving process and are seeking ways to make them meaningful." If you too desire to make the funeral for a loved one more engaging and personally meaningful, a memorial service may be the perfect concept to build on.

Difference Between a Memorial Service and a Traditional Funeral?

As mentioned in the page Traditional Funeral Services, there are four basic components which make up the conventional approach to funerals:

  1.  A Visitation
  2. The Funeral Service
  3. A Committal Service
  4. The Funeral Reception

A traditional funeral then is a series of events; it's a ritualized process where the deceased, and the attendees, pass from one social status to another; a process where the torn fabric of a family and community is repaired. According to the online article "Six Characteristics of Helpful Ceremonies", by William Hoy, Director of Grief Connect, this is done by including:

  1. Symbols of shared significance intended to communicate beyond words
  2. Ritual actions shared by a group of individuals
  3. Gathered people providing comfort to one another
  4. Connection to heritage through recognized readings
  5. Increased physical contact between attendees provide comfort
  6. Witnessing the transition of the body through burial or cremation

In knowing these characteristics, you can design a memorial service as unique as the life of your loved. 

We're Here to Advise, Assist, and Guide You

We will spend the time to help create a fitting memorial service for your loved one. Please call us at 612-861-6088 to learn the details of our memorial service planning process.

Creating a Celebration of Life
Take time to learn about this new ceremonial format, the celebration-of-life. Intended to showcase the unique life of your loved one, you'll also appreciate our suggestions on planning a meaningful and personalized celebration-of-life.
Frequently Asked Questions on Memorial Services
If you are curious about memorial services, our list of the most frequently-asked questions will satisfy. Learn what makes a memorial service a special event.